True what a wiseman says "You will know that you love someone when you want him/her to be happy. Even if that means you're not a part of their happiness."
This is the story of Rose and the love of her life. Rose and him are good friends for the longest time. They got along very well and spent good times together. Unknown to him, Rose has fallen for him but she always knew he was a star way above her league. Although Rose has a few suitors pursuing her, she kept them a distance for her love for the one.
Then one day, while talking, he told her about another girl, one that he may be falling for. Rose struggled to keep her disappointment off sight. In fact she supported and spurred him onto pursuing the one he loves. She could also throw a smile at him when he responded positively to her suggestion.
How sad that must have been for her rite. Well if you were her, what would you have done? It is true that it is hard to tell your mind to stop loving when your heart still does. But is it worth the pain to love someone and losing them when they are not your to begin with.
What would I have done if I am in that position? Well, I would probably reacted the same way as Rose. It will be depressing, thats for sure. But tome, if that the person you love is truly happy, then all one could do is to be happy for him. But one thing for sure, I would make a silent exit, let the wind brings my word of goodbye.
"The worst pain in the world is knowing that he meant everything to you but you meant nothing to him. But, life goes on once you realize your own strength inside of you: the strength to realize that saying goodbye doesn't mean that you don't love the person anymore or that you don't want to keep them in your life. It doesn't mean you're weak. It means that you've the strength to let go and live your life to the fullest because you've learned that life really is good. You are strong and can only be as happy as you choose."
1 comment:
i would tell the guy that the girl that he is interested is a lesbian. seriously, though, rose should just have the courage to tell the guy about her feelings, come on have some courage rose! Be streightforward and truthful. worst he can do is laugh. oh well. nothing is ours to begin with. We create our own pain. the only love there is is loving oneself, then true happiness begins. Loving and respecting oneself, one becomes peaceful and content. A content person naturally attracts others. A content person is happy alone and with other people, he neither desires to be alone or with anybody! Nobody really becomes 'ours'. we begin life with empty palms and end it the same way everything we collect and gather are let go, and we are left with our empty palms once again. In between we meet people. If it so happens that we are meant to get married, we try to find someone who is good. If one wants to know a really nice story about love one should read Manju and Laila story.
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