Recently, a friend said something that may not be music to the ears. It was a rather nasty remark thrown for no apparent reason, at least not whatever is said.
It made the mind thinking. Is that true? Does that reflect who I am? Am I that terrible? Would I have done the same had there been a twist of fate? Would I say nasty things to the person I care, even if its friendship that I am seek? Would I treasure the friendship and not give such comments?
Maybe I gave the person an avenue to pass such demeaning judgement on me? Would I do the same to anyone, especially my friends? Maybe not, not to even my enemies.
But what to do, the hurt is done. Its non reversal. Probably, its God's way of showing me the signals I am asking for. At least, now I know better, at least I can see clearly how I am perceived in your eyes so I will accept it.
Apology offered and accepted. But will it be forgotten? That remain a mystery as the hurt left a deep cut in the heart as you are the last person I would expect such remarks from.
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